DATING REVIEW POINT: GET HER TO YOURSELF

Have you seen a girl but youcan't get her attracted to you?
Try acting 'cool'
near her, but
don't over do it.
Sometimes acting like
your tough towards
someone else in front
of her might make her
think you're just a bully,
and that might scare
her off, or just be
completely turned off!
Whenever you go out
with that girl you
always want to look
nice. It may seem stupid
to go out looking nice
or actually putting some
effort in your
appearance, but it
might make her feel
special. If you go out
wearing the same
clothing that you did
yesterday it will appear
that you don't care and
might make her feel
stupid, (because girls
usually spend a lot of
time 'fixing themselves
up').
If you go out to a party
and you want her
attention make sure to
give her your
attention. Don't be
creepy and stare her
down, but make sure
that you are giving a
significant amount of
attention to her, (unless
she is obviously not
interested then back
off!). Talking to your
buddies, and
occasionally other girls
is alright, but make sure
that you're not over
doing it with the
attention to other girls.
The last thing you want
is for her to think
you're a player- even if
you are.
Smelling nice is
probably the #1. thing
you can do to make a
girl interested in you.
Girls may not seem to
notice that you smell
nice, but if you do, it will
definitely turn her on.
Do not- i repeat- do NOT
over do it though. You
need to make sure your
not putting too much or
too little. But the perfect
amount of cologne will
definitely make an
impression.
Even though it seems
like girls admire
confidence, and they
do, they don't like too
much confidence.
Letting some of your
inner nervousness is
sometimes good.
Letting them know that
they are making you
nervous can leave a girl
thinking about you
longer. They might
ponder why you were
nervous and remember
how cute they thought
you were, and guys,
being cute is NOT bad,
girls like guys that are
confident in themselves,
which means maybe
showing them that your
really are nervous
around them.
Talking to girls can
take balls, but it's
something you're
going to have to do to
make a girl interested
in you. Some key things
to keep in mind when
talking to her is to give
her your full attention.
Don't go looking
around at other girls, or
the room, or even your
cell phone. If your
friend comes over and
starts talking to you tell
them to wait because
the girl you were
talking to had been
interrupted. This can
leave the impression on
her that you care, and
you're not just
pretending to listen.
Which brings me to
another key fact, you
need to listen to what
she is saying. Converse
back to her with
questions and
comments on what
she's saying. Even your
opinion matters. The
last thing you want to
do is answer with just
an, okay, or yeah, unless
there is nothing else to
say.
One thing that we all
know about women is
that being the center
of attention always
makes them feel good.
Not to mention even
though you may not
know it, girls spend
plenty of time on
themselves in the
morning or when
they're getting ready to
go out, ever wonder
why? They want YOUR
attention! So next time
that you are around a
girl that you like or you
are attracted to try
complimenting her,
except the one thing
that you DO NOT want
to compliment is their
shirt. Saying, "I like your
shirt," might give the
impression that you
were staring at her
boobs. Instead, try
complimenting her hair,
even if it's not up and
looks as though she
spent an entire hour on
it, it will boost her
confidence and make
her feel good about
herself.