STORY FROM A LADY

"I met him wen I was in my firstyear in sch,we fell in love n he was in his finals.He graduated but neva stopped calling n even wen he servedhe made out time to visit me.He was retained in the oil company he served n he made me so api but he neva proposed n I didn't take any offence wt him n all to ma surprise his neighbours started congratulating me 4 wat I knew nahtin about I wasshocked but hid it not until 2 wks later I got the shocked of my life.My boyfriend n I clearly remembered wat he said'Sophie,my love u knw I love u but am sorry dat I can't marry u cos am getting married dis weekend',I dropped d spoon I was eatingwt wen he showed me d card,walked out of d dining room into the bedroom pack ma tins n left.Guess he xpected me to scream but I went home n wet ma bed wt tears.On his wedding day I went to destroy tins but couldn't so I left not bcos I was stopped bt I still luved him.A year later I met ma husband,got married n now am pregnant n ma ex n his wife are still searching 4 a child. The pregnancy dat made him leave me was a fake one.Am api cos I was notput to shame.This world is cunning pls beware."

STEPS TO KNOW IF THE PERSON LOVES YOU

They stand closer/
farther from you. If the
person is shy, then
they'll stand probably
farther away from you
than normal.

They smile in your
presence. When you
walk up to them, they
always seem to have
that grin on their face,
even if a situation turns
negative.

They talk more clearly
or in stutters in your
presence. This also
shows if they are shy or
not.

They're always with
you one day, then, for
no reason, shun you.
They just suddenly shift
behaviors on you, even
if they do like you. T
hey
might just turn mad
one day, then happy
again.

Their person is facing
yours when you get
near. Not necessarily
their face, though. This
means if they face their
body in your direction
often.

They constantly meet
you 'by coincidence'. In
other words, the
person constantly tries
to meet up where you
are, but seems to make
it happen on accident. It
only is a factor if this
happens constantly.

They are nicer towards
your friends. This could
be a huge sign,
especially if they
weren't nice to them
before.

They talk faster/slower
in your presence.

They are more
interested in your
hobbies and interests.

They listen to you
more intently. They are
trying to get to know
you more.

They try to come into
contact with you more
often. They try to touch
you often. Like the arm,
back, wrist, (etc.). This
isn't as creepy as it
sounds, as long as they
don't do it to the point
that youare
uncomfortable with it.

They'll do little things
for you to show they
care -they'll pay
attention to your
needs. They become
attuned to what gives
you pleasure and
happiness and would
want to give you this
because it makes them
happy to see you happy.

They would love you
for you, without the
pressure of being
someone else -love is
accepting.
When someone loves
you it may be
unconditional too, like
how a mother loves a
child and how the child
knows it and can be
mean or hurtful and
yet still be loved.

They'll be there for you
and offer their help
when you need it or
request it.
When someone loves
you you'll know it
you'll sense it too. It's
that thing called
intuition our spidy
sense (that little voice in
our heads and in our
hearts) We see it in
what others do for us.

Source : NigerianDiary